Husband: The Project
Having been married for about a year now, I've the distinct feeling that I am being worked on, molded, operated, changed, and turned into something slightly different. A better, improved version of myself, perhaps?
I find myself being taught new things on pretty much daily basis. Or, being taught the same things repeatedly, since I am yet to fully grasp the superior excellence of doing things differently. As a result of this, I don't feel comfortable to do so much as fold and put the clean laundry away, as I know the end result will not be to my better half's explicit liking.
I've heard it being said that a woman will want her man to change but he won't, whereas a man will want the woman to not change, and she will. Is it inconceivable to let a man just be himself?
I'm not looking for advice as such, just your thoughts and own experiences, if any.
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