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Originally posted by bondagegirl
And is it really true that a guy can't have a platonic (sp?) friendship with a girl? I mean I've heard this a lot and my boyfriend says it all the time because I used to have a lot of guy friends. But I want more guys opinions on this...
sorry to be such a thread hog...
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I'm not a guy but here's my two cents.
I don't believe guys can have a platonic friendship with a girl. The relationship will start out with whether or not the guy will want to fuck you. If he doesn't have the desire to fuck you, he wont even be your friend. I have long time guy friends that I asked this question once, "When we first met, were we only friends because you would sleep with me if you had the chance?" And they all answered affirmatively. I asked a particular friend when I went down to St. George to visit my family (we've been best friends since seventh grade) if he would still sleep with me if he had the opportunity, he said yes. I hope this helps you out
I honestly have little faith in the male population right about now, but that's just my opinion.
Oh, and the Ladder Theory is true. My friend Jon uses it to analize why he doesn't have a girlfriend that this particular time, and it always ends up being accurate.