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First of all, you need to know if it's love. If you really like someone who is in a relationship, is it because of physical attraction? More importantly, is it because it's someone you can't have? That tends to happen a lot. Our biggest *crushes* are with people who we don't have.
If you sort out your feelings for this person, you will discover how much you love them. But with true love, you will accept the fact that they are in a relationship and that they may be really in love and happy with who they are with.
You may also realize that trying to interfere with someone else's life/will can cause problems. The old saying "if you love them, let them go." If you love them, you will let them live their life and let their Soul walk its path. If their path leads to you, it's meant to be. If not, you should know that there IS someone else out there that IS meant for you and they will come along when you least expect it. There is no rush or force for true love. It will happen if you just let the desire go. Desiring someone only pushes the possibility further away. Concentrate on yourself and who you are first. Once you have that confidence, that person will come along. Just like that one Ellen DeGeneres movie where the moral was "stop looking- the person will come along when you aren't waiting for them." It's so true, take it from me. I've had the pleasure of first-hand experience.
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