I don't think I'd pick either, to tell you the truth. The mistress sounds like way too much drama and sounds like it would be not so great in the long run.. but also day to day life in a marriage you're unhappy in is not great either.
I would say ditch the mistress and look into divorce, if that is what you want to do. Work out what you would need to as far as a seperation with your wife and go out on your own to find what you are really looking for. Find someone who won't pull you into their drama of a life and someone you are interested in for more than just their physical features...... and most of all take some time out for yourself and enjoy your "singleness" if you would call it that.
What is really important is being happy in life.. and it doesn't sound like either situation will come to that effect.
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Nitz Walsh : It's not fair God. Why am I still a virgin?........ Stupid gnome.
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