I will prefice this by saying this is not a rip on you Uuudar. These things are never easy.
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Originally posted by Uuudar
...I think she's hot as hell and would totally be all over it if I wasn't friends with her.
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Unless you're not interested in a long term relationship this just doesn't make sense to me. Why wouldn't you want to pursue a deeper relationship with somebody you were best friends with? Are there other issues? Are you both available?
I have to agree with Rogue on this: there is no such thing as "no strings" sex. If it is just an urge I say forget it. If the choice (it'd be nice if it was this clear) was friendship or sex I too would opt for friendship. However, I'd risk any friendship to take it up a notch if that is what I desired. I finally realized that I was tired of being 'friends' with girls I was interested in. There is no reason it has to ruin the friendship. If you're like me you probably will, or at least make things uncomfortable for a while though.
Does it have to go direct from best friend to sex? Perhaps you're missing a step or two?