I'm going to say what I'm sure I've said before.
Porn becomes a problem when it becomes higher on the priority list than things like paying bills, buying food, loved ones, etc. I know someone who constantly spends WAY too much time building their porn collection. Way too much time and money at strip clubs, too much time watching porn. This person goes through the same withdrawals as a druggie. If they don't get their 'fix', they get moody, antsy, etc. They go through the same withdrawal symptoms. Porn is then a problem. This person has lost the trust of friends and family members because of it. This person has ended up in huge financial trouble because of it. This person ends up seeming like a scared little child.
When porn makes you the person I just described, it becomes a problem.
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Anyone can be passionate, but it takes real lovers to be silly-Rose Franken
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