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I'm embarassed to admit, my first marriage was for the sake of having a family. My plans were to have my masters degree and a husband by the time I was 30 and to have a second child by the time I was 32. I didn't marry until I was 30 -- but I made the rest of the goals. Although the marriage was a total flop, I adore my children and would not undo having them just to avoid the failed marriage.
However, at 42, I'm marrying Lebell for true love. I would never suggest "settling" to anyone. The stress is awful!
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If you can go deeply into lovemaking, the ego disappears. That is the beauty of lovemaking, that it is another source of a glimpse of god
It's not about being perfect; it's about developing some skill at managing imperfection.
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