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I think that this debate comes down to a compatibility issue. I do not care for porn and I would have never seriously dated or married a man that did. I'm not going to try and change a guy into not watching porn and I certainly will not change into liking it or "getting over it". If its a mismatch, we move on.
It's not necessarily an insecurity. To me, it's about respect. What that means to each person differs. I do not see fantasizing about sex with other people, as a healthy element in a marriage. If a guy can't respect that belief of mine, then he's simply not for me.
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