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Originally posted by agball
This is coming from a guy, but after my wife & I got married, we both agreed to enjoy each other for a few years before having children. We ended up waiting 3 years before having our first and during those years we had great fun traveling, partying etc. There are some questions you need to answer for yourself:
- Am are ready for a life change? - Being a parent is the most rewarding, frustruating and challenging experience.
- Do I feel that I am financially stable enough for children?
- I don't know your age, but as time passes, the risk of pregnency complications goes up.
All I can say is that after having children, I have had some of the greatest experiences in my life.
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wooowww. This thread isn't about me but about you guys
But never the less I totally agree with what you're saying. I've always said that I wouldn't have children unless I was mature enough, old enough, fully qualified and earning a decent living and of course living with man that I know for certain will be a great father
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I have all the characteristics of a human being: blood, flesh, skin, hair; but not a single, clear, identifiable emotion, except for greed and disgust. Something horrible is happening inside of me and I don't know why. My nightly bloodlust has overflown into my days. I feel lethal, on the verge of frenzy.
I think my mask of sanity is about to slip.
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