it's sort of a two way street. A hot girl probably has about the same chance of going out and getting laid as a hot guy that now how to act around women, it's just a matter of who is being pursued, who is doing the pursuing, and how well they do it. I'm guilty of saying to a friend that she could go out and get "some" whenever she wants, but not everyone wants lots of sex with random people just because they can, I know I don't.
As for the double standard, I think we can partially blame traditional gender roles for that. Men are seen as the pursuers, so they have to "work for the nookie", whereas women (the pursued) only have to be receptive to the man's efforts to initiate a physical encounter.
So from that point of view, men who sleep with a lot of women are just hard workers and women that are "too" receptive are "hos"
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