morals
i agree with what a few other people have said here - do what feels right. trust me, after your first time, it's not such a big taboo or question mark. really, it's not such a big deal as it seems when you're 14.
treat everyone with respect. she says no, then it's no. you'll know when it's the right time, and if it's after you're married, then so be it. i know that my girlfriend and i would be chewing off the countertops though it we weren't going at as often as we do.
no one needs another headache in their life, and if you think you'll end up regretting something, don't do it. otherwise, do what makes you happy.
that convoluted set of discrete statements is the best i can come up with.
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