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Skettios · 03-15-2004, 08:58 PM

elgar40

There are two things that could be going on here...

One is that your roommate is trying to politely tell you that you're already out of the race (not a big deal, she doesn't even know you yet right)

The other is that this girl has had some horribly strict upbringing and doesn't date, or there is something else wrong with her (emotional problems and stuff).

If I were you, I'd find an 'in' with the roommate. Play a game in their room, or something innocent where she would want to get involved, and then turn it playfully flirty. If you can do that, it will give you room to work, and it sounds like that's all you need brother.

edit: Also don't get 'one-itis' she is not the only attractive intelligent girl out there.

Finally, take the kid gloves off. Smart girls appreciate a smart guy who isn't afraid to call them out, and butt heads with them. A lot of the girls I've dated (or lucked into dating) was because I'm a stubborn asshole who doesn't let them state positions without backing them up with facts. Always remember friends ladder.

03-15-2004, 08:58 PM	#382 (permalink)
Skettios Condition: Stable and Improving Location: Finger on the little red button.	elgar40 There are two things that could be going on here... One is that your roommate is trying to politely tell you that you're already out of the race (not a big deal, she doesn't even know you yet right) The other is that this girl has had some horribly strict upbringing and doesn't date, or there is something else wrong with her (emotional problems and stuff). If I were you, I'd find an 'in' with the roommate. Play a game in their room, or something innocent where she would want to get involved, and then turn it playfully flirty. If you can do that, it will give you room to work, and it sounds like that's all you need brother. edit: Also don't get 'one-itis' she is not the only attractive intelligent girl out there. Finally, take the kid gloves off. Smart girls appreciate a smart guy who isn't afraid to call them out, and butt heads with them. A lot of the girls I've dated (or lucked into dating) was because I'm a stubborn asshole who doesn't let them state positions without backing them up with facts. Always remember friends ladder. __________________ Convictions are more dangerous enemies of truth than lies. Frederich Nietzsche Last edited by Skettios; 03-15-2004 at 09:05 PM..