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Just don't put girls on a pedestal.
You didn't make any of their problems, so why should you solve them for her?
If I had a problem would you try to solve it for me?
I don't know why it has to be any different from that.
The minute you start bending over for her, you lose mutual respect.
When you're an asshole to women, or at least not a 'nice guy' you make them work for the respect that you give them, it's a 50/50 thing.
So relax off this girl, and don't worry about it so much. Be the one in the relationship that doesn't call, be the one that doesn't put up with her shit, and demand some respect. In the end you'll either get it or her problems will be someone else's.
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Convictions are more dangerous enemies of truth than lies.
Frederich Nietzsche
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