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Originally posted by stevie667
most of the girls i know are on a life long rebound off someone or other.
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Exactly. That's why when you run into one with a lot of baggage, you have run, don't walk, to the nearest fire escape, and don't look back. Otherwise you're going to end up carrying it for her, and it sounds like you are already.
Also, you could do what I do, only date girls younger than you, who have never had a serious relationship. I know that sounds horrible, but I've found that the relationship is better when I have the emotional/maturity edge, that way I can control the pace and the timing. Plus it's a lot easier to find a young woman who is 2-3 years younger than you are (please wait till you're 21 to start with this strategy), who will eat up the fact that you're an older guy paying her some attention, and therefore be into you to begin with. Win-Win situation.