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most of the girls i know are on a life long rebound off someone or other.
i think that the problems usually arrive when someone doesn't know anything else apart from how they were treated before, usually after a long term relationship, but there are exceptions.
then, they go out with you for a bit, but a part of them doesn't like the change, and manifests itself in the bane of everyman 'i like you loads, but i still have feelings for my ex'.
it's always the nice guys who end up with that end of the stick, you mop up the mess of someone else, only to have things collapse around you again.
i agree with what J. T. Kirk said. it's all an evolutionary thing, womens instincts want a strong man to look after them, but a nuturing man to look after the kids, and then you get the female mind on top of that, and you have a 5 million word scientific paper about how stupid it all is.
i agree with the bad girl analagy too. i once dated a girl who was very tomboyish, loud and generally had the mind of the asshole ex. yes, she was hot, and theres nothing better than having a nympho for a g/f, but it just gets very grating when you have someone who can't go three seconds without using somekind of profanity, and really wants to be the boss. so, things didn't work out, shame, she was hot.
i could spend hours going over the base instincts of female mating behaviour, but i can't be arsed and some feminist is gona get in a nature vs. nurture argument with me.
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