Dunno if this applies to your situation but women with low self esteem often fall for controlling men who treat them badly, and act like they dont care about them. Its mistaking a mans weakness for strength. They mistake the behavior as a sign of a strong man when in fact its usually the mans own insecurities as the driving force behind it.
At the same time they mistake the "nice guy" for a weakling because he is secure enough in himself to treat her like she is not beneath him.
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