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I'd like to know more about the whole situation before I would feel comfortable passing judgement, or offering advice. For all I know right now, everyone may be cool with each other with the situation as it is. I'll pose some questions instead.
What do you think is her reason for fooling around with you? Is she intending to leave the current boyfriend? Does he care? Does he get off on it? Is she getting off by being a "bad girl"? How close are they? What are everyone's ages... is this a high school romance or a recognized long term "adult" relationship? Do they live together? Have any kids together? What are you (really) looking for from the relationship? What is she looking for? Is this normal behavior for her? For you?
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