If you are a talker don't lay huge expectations on or feel hurt if the other person isn't as talktative or doesn't wish to have long conversations.
Communicate with your girlfriend and explain to her the reasons you don't like to talk on the phone for long extensions of time, assure her it has nothing to do with her. Invite her over instead where talking won't feel like such a burden and silence can be golden.
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