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Dude, I've found for women it is more what they eat than what they exercise. She should try weight watchers - it really works and she will learn to change eating habits, not fail time after time with quack fad diets.
You sound like you are learning some marriage lessons the hard way. Men actually mean what they say most of the time. It is not usually safe for women to "read into" what we say. You should try to tell her this and make her understand it. Women typically can't understand this because they aren't as simple and direct as guys. Not worse, just very different.
- Dude! NEver, NEVER NEVER say anything to a woman about her weight unless you want a shit storm. In this case though, I understand, because she seemed to have esteem and worth issues, etc.
- Her weight probably will get worse with age and marriage. If it bothers you much then think about it because that is more often what happens than the opposite. I know everyone is different and this might not apply in your case, but it is common.
- good luck to you. Remember one other important lesson: If she EVER says to you to not get her a present, etc. for b-day or v-day, etc. then say "yes dear" and get her a present anyway. If you don't then you will never live it down.. gotta run
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