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You know I was reading this thread and I see a lot of people saying its confidence and other things are what people are attracted to. For a small part of attraction that may be true. But being over wieght does not help at all. Most peoples first impresstion is on looks. So if your overwieght then people might not even give you the chance to get to know if your confident or not. All the confidence in the world is not going to make anyone want you on a first impresstion. From what I am reading on his post I see that he is looking for the first impresstion attration and for that you need better looks, or maybe just to loose some wieght. So what you should do is get in the gym loose some wieght then with the weight loose that you achieve you'll gain some confidence and have the looks to go with it and you'll be set. In the USA we are very superfical, how many ugly stars do you see or overwieght ones anymore for that matter. Look around you and just see, and then decide what you want.
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Recovering nice guy
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