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Okay, my take on this is simple:
Dump your girlfriend. Immediately. If you've been together this long without actual long-term commitment, and suddenly you want her hot friend, you are SERIOUSLY looking for a way out.
End it. It'll never withstand the test of time with the doubts you very obviously have. If she was the one for you, you may still have porn thoughts about other ladies, but you certainly wouldn't feel overpowering thoughts for her friend.
You gotta be happy- and obviously, you're not. but if she has treated you right till now, you gotta treat her right from here on out, that means being a MAN about it and not taking for some long-term ego ride.
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