I'm gonna have to agree with most everyone else here that it's not your size and weight that's the problem, it's the "oh whoa is me" attitude that's gonna kill a deal with a woman.
I knew a gal who was in a similar situation as yours, she was concerned about her weight and all that, but once she finally realized that some of us didn't care about that, she really opened up and became a hell of a personality, and some people, myself included started looking at her in a "different" sort of way. Her personality was extremely attractive, and that's what it's all about.
Personality.
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