What the hell are you saying ?
You've been with a woman for 6-7 years now ? You don't want to commit, you have reservations, you give in to yourself and mess around with her friend ?
Geez man.
Do you love your girlfriend ? Can you honestly see yourself marrying her ? In all honesty, I don't know many guys that didn't get cold feet in one way or another before getting married. But you really need to evaluate what you have on the fire before looking somewhere else.
This other girl, she just got out of a relationship, she sees you as a distraction, and that's all you'll be. Do you really expect to build it into anything more ?
I'd seriously evaluate what you have going for you now with your current girlfriend, and if that's not working, move on before getting into this whatever-it-is with her friend.
It's her friend. You're also going to have to deal with the woman you've loved for all those years and the way she chooses to react to the truth. For no matter what, she'll end up finding out.
Good luck.
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