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oberon · 03-08-2004, 01:24 PM

I'm in the same boat as you, Strange Famous (well, not exactly, I weigh ~275 but I'm 6'1", a fair amount taller than you).

I think my problem is I'm not very self-confident; specifically, I don't reach out to random women even if we have something in common, like we share a class or something. There are some underlying problems keeping me from changing this, but I am (slowly) addressing them.

I'm quite sure it has little or nothing to do with my body frame. Which, incidentally, I'm also working on changing.

I think this is the attitude that you need, if you want to meet women. It helps a lot if you aren't a "stranger", though.

03-08-2004, 01:24 PM	#22 (permalink)
oberon Quadrature Amplitude Modulator Location: Denver	I'm in the same boat as you, Strange Famous (well, not exactly, I weigh ~275 but I'm 6'1", a fair amount taller than you). I think my problem is I'm not very self-confident; specifically, I don't reach out to random women even if we have something in common, like we share a class or something. There are some underlying problems keeping me from changing this, but I am (slowly) addressing them. I'm quite sure it has little or nothing to do with my body frame. Which, incidentally, I'm also working on changing. I think this is the attitude that you need, if you want to meet women. It helps a lot if you aren't a "stranger", though. __________________ "There are finer fish in the sea than have ever been caught." -- Irish proverb