Temporarysanity

you may not get alot of women at yur weiht but lenty of guys who weigh alot less than you arent getting the girl either. The main fact of it all is your attitude does effect how people will or wont interact with you. stop drinking and stop thinking so much about landing a woman and just go out and have fun. I felt like you at times (wondering why I coulnt get a woman) but I know now I had alot of inner issues that kept me from being able to open up and talk and just be myself.

and as far as your weight goes Ive seen alot of ugly fat guys with very attractive women. Women so hott you cant help but stop and wonder wtf!!!!!!The sad truth about life is you really just need to be yourself and you will find someone. If you act fake you will only attract fake women. Just go out and do some things you like to do and you can find someone while doing them. Dont be afraid to be open about how you feel and never be afraid to ask someone out.

The word no isnt the worst thing you can hear and for every girl who tells you no theres thousands out there who might say yes. you shoul seriously take some time and really look at who you are as a person. I mean a really deep look at what makes you tick. GGet to know who you are and why you might be so down on yourself. Im willing to be you have some old issues eating at you that if you acknowledge them and let them go you will finally be free of all that and be able to have fun.

and its ok to have a drink with friends but to drink for depression is bad since alcholis a depressant.