Morals are for those that are willing to take the sling and arrows that life while throw at you. Its hard man, and it really sucks. On my part what I really want is a relationship where I don't have to worry about being on my best behavior nor trying to figure out what the other person wants. I don't like the idea of casual sex because for me it sounds so disrespectful to both of the people involved, on the other hand I have been dumped two times in the last three months for taking what we do in bed way to seriosuly. I'd like to think that the after sex cuddingling has more to do with just liking the position you can fall asleep in.
In the end it really comes down to what you want to accept. Do yo mind sex with the idea of no more attachment beyond a period of 24 hours? I may miss her...but in the end I mean....thre days is the usual waiting period right?
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