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Having recently gained a girlfriend (yeaaaa!) I have discovered a recent trend in myself to want to nibble on her, particularly her neck.

This is great, and she enjoys it...however I've been instructed to be more careful (the bruises I left were very visible...she got sick (unrelated) and the campus clinic thought she might have been trying to hang herself, as well as meetings that we had last week with the Dean of Students (unrelated to the clinic visit)).

Two questions: 1) Anyone else do this on a regular basis? I'm familiar with the whole hickey concept, but that's not the driving motivation here. I didn't do it to mark her or anything, I was just kissing...which turned to biting...which led to bruises on her neck. I was actually mortified when we realized that she was pretty bruised.

2) Can anyone recommend some viable alternative? I've been very careful since to keep nibbling (there) at an absolute minimum, but just kissing doesn't elicit the same response from either of us (not as fun for me, and not as stimulating for her).

Thanks,

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