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Originally posted by motdakasha
I wouldn't date someone who has a lot of hangups and insecurities about his/her weight.
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Ok, thats understandable, but it wasnt really my question - I wasnt saying would you date someone like me, just someone my size, if their personality and other aspects where what you were looking for in a man.
So, would you date someone my size who was totally unselfconciosu about it and had a lot of the othe things you like in men? I mean, thats what Im asking, would someone being 280 lbs mean you would completely rule them out, or could you still date them?
I understand that I have a lot of other issues - such as the whole self pity thing, no money, being kind of down most the time... I was just really talking about the physical side in this post at least.