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Originally posted by shoe
I dont get why you are asking questions like this. If yourself you arent comfortable with your weight why dont you juste go out there and get in shape. Change your eating habits and join the gym. Your not going to get anything off posting something like this on the TFP. What will help you though is concrete ACTIONS. This is a wake up call..you will be way happier when you get in shape. And yes - YOU CAN DO IT with the right motivation and the benefits are incredible. It will change your life.
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Well, I am trying to lose weight, as for "not getting anything" from posting this here, what I am trying to get is people's opinions. I feel that most women wouldnt date someone my size, but thats why I am asking... I am not freak show, people stop in the street and laugh at me fat, but I am about 80 lbs overweight - I am curious as to whether women would date someone life me, since this is me.
And please, anyone that does answer, dont just say "yes" to be nice, I just want to know people's real opinions.
And, shoe, if just wanting to lose weight would make me lose it, I wouldnt be the size I am, my main problem is the amount I drink, and part of the reason I drink is that I am unhappy and lonely, and part of the reason I am unhappy and lonely is that Im fat - i am doing my best to lose weight, but it isnt so easy. I am pretty fit, and I play squash and soccer, and I am going to the gym, but still, obviously, I am fat - and I dont know if most girls would even look at someone my size or not.