Honestly, most of my best guy friends I know from school. We have grown up together, so we automaticly have a bond. Sometimes I can look at my best bud and tell whats up with out talking to him.
As far as male bonding goes, just chill at home, play some poker or other social passtime games. Surprisingly, I find DDR (dance dance revolution) a great ice breaker, it loosens everyone up. Everyone looks like a fool and you can let your guard down. Just be yourself, you will find others who share interests and those will be the people who can accept you as you are.
As time goes on I have been able to trust my friends better than anyone else, even my parents. There is definitly something to be said for platonic love now a days.
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