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One thing we ran across when we would tell relatives that we weren't going to have kids was, "Who is going to take care of you when you get old?" We would reply, "These days there's no guarantee that even if you have kids, they'll take care of you." That kind of quieted down the quizzing about kids.
What I regret is that we were too truthful, advising that it would be difficult to raise kids well, considering the hours we were working, the size of our house, etc. In hind sight, I would have just said, "We can't have kids". And let them think what they want.
And, good sex has nothing to do with having kids. I think we've probably been more sexually active over the years because of less fatigue from trying to juggle too many commitments.
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