greyeyes

OK, now that I have finally finished reading this entire thread (it took me a week to read, digest, and re read) I am ready to try your advice plan9. Thank you for your time and effort in putting this massive thread together, and thank you all who have posted here giving your own opinions whether they aggree with plan9 or not. I do have a question of my own for plan9 and anyone else who would like to advise me in my actions. I remember that it was said that relationships at work will not work or rarely work out well; but in my situation there is a girl at work who I rarely talk to and whenever I do it is for short periods of time (I just dont have much to say to her). Now, it has been brought to my attention that this girl wants to fuck my brains out or me fuck her brains out however it goes. She is a decent looking girl that I have NOTHING in common with and would NEVER want a relationship with. Would you advise shacking up with this female co'worker? I believe that doing just this will allow me to get my game back because it's been a while for me, a long while. Though I do not plan on having a relationship with this fellow coworker. I have also been under the impression that all she wants is someone to fill her hole, no relationship attached.

For the past few months I actually have been horribly celibate and I honestly did not care (I used to have a girlfriend, really hot, I realized that every time we had sex it was because I instigated it and I was tired of that so I waited for her to do just that (instigate sex). She never did, we broke up, and I guess I never got out of the rut of not instigating anything (that's pretty much the jist of why I stopped fuking)). Now I need the advice of anyone who thinks they have the answer to my prediciment. I also sincerly hope the MAC who started this thread will pitch in his ideas as well.

Thanks guys

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