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I've been to lots of clubs in AZ. The dances I've recieved vary quite a bit. Some keep their distance, others get on you and grind. My way of going about it is to wait and see how she is acting. If she keeps her distance, so do I. If she starts grinding, I'll slowly start moving in rhythm with her. Eventually I'll start touching their legs, hips, and back but always stay away from the breasts and genital region. I've never had a dancer tell me to stop anything although I have had girls move away quickly as soon as I touch them. If they do that, I keep my hands to myself.
Its always been the dancer that went a lot farther than I did. A long time ago, when I was about 19 (28 now), I had a dancer unzip my pants a little, touch me a bit and put her tongue on my tip quickly once. That really freaked me out, but I couldn't bring myself to stop her. I was so afraid a bouncer was going to show up from out of nowhere that I couldn't enjoy it.
At the same club, I had a dancer that would let me lick and suck on her breasts for most of the dance. She kept rubbing them against my lips, so eventually I just went with it. She didn't mind, she just pressed harder against me.
Recently, I found a club with two dancers that do some great things. While she's grinding, she'll reach under my legs and stroke me through my pants a bit. She will also sit on her knees and press her mouth against my cock through my pants. I never knew how much someone could make you feel without taking any of my clothes off. When I got home, I realized I had lipstick marks all over my pants.
About 25% of girls will give light kisses on the neck, ear, or cheek. This other dancer sucked on my earlobe for quite a bit. In spite of all the other crazy things that have happened, this was the most erotic thing a dancer ever did for me. It must of been in the way she did it because it made me feel like she was really into it. She gave me some of the best dances I've ever had. Lots of great grinding, eye contact and kisses from her.
Afterwards, we talked for a few songs. A lot of it was about her job. She told me she loves her job and she loves how erotic dancing is for her. She said she thinks its a safe way for people to enjoy sexual feelings without any bad things happening.
Overall, it just depends on the girl. Let her be the first to do anything and pay attention to how other customers are acting when they get dances and how the dancer herself responds to anything you do. Some love their job and are happy to please you, others don't and want you to stay away. Just don't be a jerk.
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