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Originally posted by TickTock
now my questions to all of you is,
Do you think i should forgive either of them?
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Yes, eventually, and for yourself, not for them. Hanging onto bitterness only makes you, well, bitter. You sound like a big-hearted person, and I don't doubt that you'll find it in yourself to forgive them both when the time is right. But for now, just hurt and be upset till you're ready to move on.
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Should i try to work things out with the guy that was my friend?
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If you feel like the friendship is worth it, yes. If he's a basically good guy and this is an anomaly, then maybe it's worth saving a friendship, and you'd get major major karma points. But if this is the latest (and worst) in a string of signals, it might be time to cut ties and find a new best friend.
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how can i get him the help he needs?
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Clearly he wants help, but for some reason can't get it (finances - is he still dependent on his family?). If you feel like doing some research, you can find him some free support groups or a therapist who works on a sliding fee scale.
You sound like a very kind person, and I'm sorry this has happened to you. I hope you can grow from it and find someone who's worthy of you.