You guys are too nice. This happened to me in college. I was dating this girl pretty seriously. We were living together but having a few communication issues. We were close to getting engaged when I left to go back home for the summer. A couple of weeks passes, and I go down there for the weekend. She broke up with me at the start of the weekend and wouldn't really give me a reason why. I find out later that a friend of mine (not best friend but a friend) had been "talking" to her for a few weeks prior to me leaving. They apparently started screwing a couple of days after I left.
Now I suppose I could have thanked him for taking this girl who obviously wasn't right for me off of my hands. I could have also forgiven her. What I did was kick the shit out of him and blow her off when she wanted to get back together a few months later.
Would I do that today? I can't honestly say what I would do. I can still vaguely recall the pain that whole situation caused me.
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