As far as forgiving them, you can't hold a grudge for 10 years and feel good about it, so maybe just stay away from them for a couple months to cool off.
But you should know that at least you found out your friend would do this with your gf instead of 5 years down the road with someone who's your wife, and you found out your gf would do this rather than being 5 years down the road with her AS your wife. Sorta like firefighters going around burning dead brush to keep the forest from igniting.
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