Am I being overly cautious?
Ok, this is probably kind of a silly question, but bear with me.
I met this girl, she is pretty nice. But I don't know how I feel about her. I'm not 100% sure that, in 20 years, I want to wake up with her. This might change, I just don't know her well enough yet. Right now we have decided it is just kind of a fling till I leave the state. With these two things in mind, I have decided I don't want to have sex with her (yet at any rate). I'm willing to do everything else she wants, and I think she is enjoying it. But I have a hard time letting her bring me to orgasm, simply because the end result ends up all over myself and a little bit over her. Now I know its silly, but I'm just a little worried about my chances of getting her pregnant this way.
I know the chances are pretty low, but I guess I need to hear it from you guys. I want to be in a relationship with this girl (even if the future looks shaky). I want her to enjoy herself. But I don't want a family right yet.
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This too shall pass.
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