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Plan for the worst, work toward the best.
Save money in a safe place. Separation/divorce is not cheap. Pocket the beer money. Pay off as many bills as you can, don't make any new ones.
Work hard to help it work, then work harder. Avoid fast women and whiskey.
If you can't make it work, depart with honor. Be nice, split fairly. Don't talk shit and ignore anyone that says your SO is talking crap about you.
Don't be my friend R__, he kept trying year after year. Finally after a divorce, he says he is happier than ever.
Remember sometimes, with every effort made, its just not a viable living relationship. So punt.
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Back button again, I must be getting old.
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