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Yakk · 03-02-2004, 09:03 AM

If a woman isn't having regular sex with their husband, it is perfectly understandable that they go out and find sexual intimacy with other people.

I mean, it is the woman's fault for not keeping up the sexual relationship.

If a man isn't communicating with their wife, it is perfectly understandable that they go out and find emotional intimacy with other people.

I mean, it is the man's fault for not keeping up communication in the relationship.

Same shit, different pile... Both are partially true, and mostly false.

It is quite possible that your wife is cheating on you because she doesn't feel emotionally/sexually fullfilled by you. This is a failing in you.

It would be justified for your wife to get seperated or divorced or talking with you and trying to improve things. Your wife cheating on you is not justified.

If there is something going on, your wife is treating you like a doormat, and spying is a justified option. If there is nothing going on, you are being paranoid, and spying is not a justified option. At this point, spying would simply be an act you do before leaving the relationship, in order to justify your actions to 3rd parties or yourself. It isn't an easy choice.

<-- feeling cynical today.

03-02-2004, 09:03 AM	#32 (permalink)
Yakk Wehret Den Anfängen! Location: Ontario, Canada	If a woman isn't having regular sex with their husband, it is perfectly understandable that they go out and find sexual intimacy with other people. I mean, it is the woman's fault for not keeping up the sexual relationship. If a man isn't communicating with their wife, it is perfectly understandable that they go out and find emotional intimacy with other people. I mean, it is the man's fault for not keeping up communication in the relationship. Same shit, different pile... Both are partially true, and mostly false. It is quite possible that your wife is cheating on you because she doesn't feel emotionally/sexually fullfilled by you. This is a failing in you. It would be justified for your wife to get seperated or divorced or talking with you and trying to improve things. Your wife cheating on you is not justified. If there is something going on, your wife is treating you like a doormat, and spying is a justified option. If there is nothing going on, you are being paranoid, and spying is not a justified option. At this point, spying would simply be an act you do before leaving the relationship, in order to justify your actions to 3rd parties or yourself. It isn't an easy choice. <-- feeling cynical today. __________________ Last edited by JHVH : 10-29-4004 BC at 09:00 PM. Reason: Time for a rest.