Wow, life really knows how to hurt us sometimes, huh? It is amazing that we somehow keep bouncing back - but that doesn't make it hurt any less...
I can't help but think that it is a maturity issue with these women. They aren't mature enough to know what they want or to resist temptation, or to be serious and steadfast. Your problem is that you are attracted to these women and know how to find them out. It could also be "dumb" (bad) luck too. Definitely cruel fate either/both way(s).
I would see if you can find a woman to date on americansingles.com or date.com or udate.com -whatever all those online ones are. Those women WANT to meet someone serious and are sick of messing around. I would bet that those women know what they want and are less likely to fool around than the women you are finding elsewhere. - only thing I could think of...
Maybe, just do the opposite of whatever you were doing before to meet and choose women...
As George Castanza would say:
Waitress : Tuna on toast, coleslaw, cup of coffee.
George : Yeah. No, no, no, wait a minute, I always have tuna on toast. Nothing's ever
worked out for me with tuna on toast. I want the complete opposite of tuna
on toast. Chicken salad, on rye, untoasted ... and a cup of tea.
Elaine : Well, there's no telling what can happen from this.
Jerry : You know chicken salad is not the opposite of tuna, salmon is the opposite
of tuna, 'cos salmon swim against the current, and the tuna swim with it.
George : Good for the tuna.
( A blonde looks at George )
Elaine : Ah, George, you know, that woman just looked at you.
George : So what? What am I supposed to do?
Elaine : Go talk to her.
George : Elaine, bald men, with no jobs, and no money, who live with their parents,
don't approach strange women.
Jerry : Well here's your chance to try the opposite. Instead of tuna salad and being
intimidated by women, chicken salad and going right up to them.
George : Yeah, I should do the opposite, I should.
Jerry : If every instinct you have is wrong, then the opposite would have to be
right.
George : Yes, I will do the opposite. I used to sit here and do nothing, and regret it
for the rest of the day, so now I will do the opposite, and I will do
something!
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