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I don't think it's appropriate to spy on anyone. If there is no trust in your marriage you are heading down a road to destruction. Would you want her to spy on you if you were having a secret affair or were just friends with someone but she was suspicious of it?
Communicate with her instead of sneaking behind her back. Not only are you going to break her trust in you if you wrongly accuse her but you may harm your marriage in a bad way.
If she's done this before, you have a right to be a little wary of things she's been doing. If it bothers you this much, speak to her. Maybe she's not hiding as well as she should because she's trying to communicate with you in a round about way that she's unhappy?
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