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Originally posted by SiN
2. If she is cheating, there's got to be some reason *why*. perhaps your approach should be more of opening a dialog about the state of your marriage, what's not working, etc. Worry less about direct confrontation, but go down the road where cheating would live, if it is happening. And perhaps you both will learn things in the process.
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just don't rule out the possibility that the reason she is cheating on you is that she is selfish and dishonest. honestly, it really does sound like she is. figure out whether the relationship is worth saving before any big confrontations. if you aren't sure what to do, remember that a feeling of security and a need to fend off loneliness aren't good reasons to try to work it out. it will only truly be healed if both of you are pulling in the same direction from now on.
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