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Man oh man do I feel for you. Its a tough situation you're facing. I agree with what some others are saying. If you confront her about it you'll have to admit to snooping and she is going to turn that one around on you real quick. You will be in the doghouse immediatelyand it might be for nothing. It could have just been an innocent e-mail. Also, if she is cheating you'll have tipped your hand without any real evidence and she'll just be more careful in the future. I would just keep close tabs on her (without being overbearing or clingy) and see if any more suspicious activities happen. You should also talk to her about your relationship in a calm, mature manner. Don't initiate this conversation when you are in "freaked out suspicious mode." This will just lead to shouting and heartbreak. As hard as I know it will be, try to be calm and rational and see how she feels about your relationship. Hopefully you'll come away relieved and satisfied. At any rate you'll get a better idea where you stand and perhaps uncover some needs she has. Good Luck.
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