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From personal experience, I know what the root of the problem is. Lack of communication. You may not want to hear this, but you can't blame her fully, as you both contribute to the problem. Even if she is not cheating, this suspicion and fear is showing a sign of distrust and lack of communication. It's up to you whether or not you want to make things better in your relationship by changing yourself and talking with her about it, as well as everything else- being 100% open and honest.
When you don't communicate, you don't have a relationship. Simple as that.
I encourage you to step up and do what feels good to you- either talk to her and work on things in the relationship or go your seperate ways. But it is always worth trying to grow closer and make the relationship work. But make sure you look at yourself and what you could be doing to cause this feeling/possible actual event. Look at what you can do to change it. Only you can change you, you can't change her. That's up to her.
If you've got love, you will want to work this out.
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