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Originally posted by jvwgtr
You know what so often they say about these situations...if you think your spouse is cheating, they probabably are.
There has to be some indication in your marriage that things are a little strained to begin with...
I dated a girl for years who had suspected her (now ex) husband of cheating. She didn't have any evidence, just a girl's name that she was pretty sure was his mistress.
Rather than collect hard evidence, she confronted him one day by bluffing, "And I know about [girl's name]".
The look on his face told her all she needed to know.
I'm not sure that's the way to go, though. But if you ask her honestly, maybe you'll get an honest answer and can work from there.
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I actually tried this last night. However, the story that she gave me did not fit at all with the E-mails that I've seen.
Supposedly he's an older guy who's a "fill in" bowler for the league she's in. Supposedly she's been giving advice about what he should do about his 25 year old (her age) son.
The last time I caught her going behind my back, she gave me an excuse for that one too, but I didn't accept it until she cracked and told the whole story. But that time I confronted her with the evidence I found. This time, I really want to get more evidence, build a rock solid case.