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Originally posted by SiN
A couple things come to mind...
1. If you have children with her, please please take utmost care with the situation.
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She had a child from a previous marriage, whom I adore of course, but there are no children between us.
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Originally posted by SiN
2. If she is cheating, there's got to be some reason *why*. perhaps your approach should be more of opening a dialog about the state of your marriage, what's not working, etc. Worry less about direct confrontation, but go down the road where cheating would live, if it is happening. And perhaps you both will learn things in the process.
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I've actually tried this. We've been shaky the last few weeks, due to problems with my job, she's been stressing pretty badly. She doesn't like the fact that I'm pretty much a homebody, and I don't like the fact that she's always going out. In the last two weeks, she hasn't come straight home from work once. Its one of the things that originally fed my suspicion. Most of the time she just comes home and goes straight to bed. We've actually even discussed a seperation, but we decided to stick it out. That was only about a week ago...
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Originally posted by SiN
And good luck. We are here for you.
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Thank you all...