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First off, I'd like to tell you that I am sorry to hear that you are in such a situation. It is one of the most painful, the most trying things you can experience.
However, if you are able to try to step outside of the problem, and look at it from an oustiders perspective, you'll see that you do have other options here.
I won't get into my ordeal, but I was in a very similiar situation, it all started on the computer.
However, I didn't stop myself to think clearly, I took what I had and confronted her, and left no room for her to go. I was so angry, I destroyed everything.
If this relationship means anything to you, you'll spend some time thinking of a better way to handle things then by simply gathering evidence. Try to talk first, and if that doesn't work. Maybe it's just best you pack up now, before you go where you cannot come back from. Is the pain of knowing really worth it ?
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