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Old 03-01-2004, 06:27 AM   #7 (permalink)
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Originally posted by SiN
2. If she is cheating, there's got to be some reason *why*. perhaps your approach should be more of opening a dialog about the state of your marriage, what's not working, etc. Worry less about direct confrontation, but go down the road where cheating would live, if it is happening. And perhaps you both will learn things in the process.
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Give the girl a prize!

This is probably the best way to go about things - she doesn't feel like she's under surveilance, and you address the root causes of any possible infidelity. Treat the disease, not the symptoms.
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