You know what so often they say about these situations...if you think your spouse is cheating, they probabably are.
There has to be some indication in your marriage that things are a little strained to begin with...
I dated a girl for years who had suspected her (now ex) husband of cheating. She didn't have any evidence, just a girl's name that she was pretty sure was his mistress.
Rather than collect hard evidence, she confronted him one day by bluffing, "And I know about [girl's name]".
The look on his face told her all she needed to know.
I'm not sure that's the way to go, though. But if you ask her honestly, maybe you'll get an honest answer and can work from there.
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