Sex question~

[Koochy]

I've read about it all over the place, and always been confused. Now I think it's time I finally asked someone about this.

Girls, and their orgasms.

I've been with my gf for about 4 months now. She was my first (I'm 19) and it lasted about 15 seconds (hehe). After a bit of practice, the length of me lasting was not of concern. The thing I'm wondering about, is that when I'm with her and having sex, I can usually make her come, but this takes a while to happen. When she finally does finish, she usually can't continue. She says it feels uncomfortable, much like a guy and the head of the penis... I'm guessing.

I just noticed this thread here (nice going btw :D?). I know every girls different, but I really want to give her a continuous stream of orgasms. This however, isn't looking likely.

There have been times, where I've managed to keep her on the edge of coming for a good hour (I'd have already came, but managed to continue). She said a few times that sex has never felt so good afterwards (I'm not complaining about this though).

Now, maybe I'm just being greedy. I know how to please her, but I'd like to know if this is normal of her having 1, and not being able to continue. Slap me if I have the wrong perspective on this matter!

Thanks for any help <3

[Squishor]

I think this is a case of "everyone's different" and from what I've seen, there is more variation among women than men. This might change for her as she matures and gets more experienced (assuming she has a similar age and experience level to yours).

I know I could never have 10 orgasms in a row and sometimes not even one, but that doesn't mean I haven't had a fulfilling and enjoyable sex life for many years. One thing that occurred to me is you could be stimulating her in a way that makes her more sensitive - maybe she could experiment on her own (or with you there!) and see if she can give herself multiple orgasms, then show you what works.

[healer]

I agree with Squishor...it's a case of different strokes for different folks. I mean I've given my gf 10 orgasms in a row and it was amazing, but sometimes she just has one strong one and she's just as satisfied.

I know it's a bit of a power trip - being able to get her off Just make sure the experience is as good for her as it is for you.

[Koochy]

Noted!

She is far more experienced than me, goddam. I made the mistake of asking how experienced. Simply put, she looked for love in all the wrong places... many times .

I'm sure it's just the simple concept of everyone being different. When I see her this weekend, I'll have a go at asking if she likes something else after coming to keep her going / work her back up faster!

Thanks for the help <3

[mandy]

those 10 orgasms really were amazing!!!thank you baby

[ngdawg]

10??? Gawd, 3 intense ones and my heart feels like it'd explode and my little friend starts to hide from fear.

[ShaniFaye]

Originally Posted by Koochy

I've read about it all over the place, and always been confused. Now I think it's time I finally asked someone about this.

Girls, and their orgasms.

I've been with my gf for about 4 months now. She was my first (I'm 19) and it lasted about 15 seconds (hehe). After a bit of practice, the length of me lasting was not of concern. The thing I'm wondering about, is that when I'm with her and having sex, I can usually make her come, but this takes a while to happen. When she finally does finish, she usually can't continue. She says it feels uncomfortable, much like a guy and the head of the penis... I'm guessing.

I just noticed this thread here (nice going btw ?). I know every girls different, but I really want to give her a continuous stream of orgasms. This however, isn't looking likely.

There have been times, where I've managed to keep her on the edge of coming for a good hour (I'd have already came, but managed to continue). She said a few times that sex has never felt so good afterwards (I'm not complaining about this though).

Now, maybe I'm just being greedy. I know how to please her, but I'd like to know if this is normal of her having 1, and not being able to continue. Slap me if I have the wrong perspective on this matter!

Thanks for any help <3

completely normal for me. on rare occasions I MIGHT have a 2nd one, if the first one was a gspot one. If its a clitoral one, you can forget it, you aint coming nowhere near me afterwards lol. For some reason with a clitoral O I get so tight Dave cant get back in.